When someone makes mistakes
And is apologetic and daily self flagellates,
Refusing to move on,
Pacifying, cajoling, remonstrating begins to weigh upon.
Walking away is an option
But then the someone will cling further to the notion
That a mistake made is still unforgiven
The payment for it will last across this generation!
Guilt is a cover that can shroud
Not just the repentant but those around.
Not that one should not feel sorry
But one mistake cannot be one's only misery!
As we grow we make many
We learn, we repent, we forgive, we forge towards glory,
But if we wallow, stay rooted in the past,
Those loved ones around may not last.
Children are whom I look to for life lessons
So many mistakes, some tears, some smiles and all is forgiven.
While mistakes are at times repeated, progress is constant,
Each milestone is greeted by children exultant.
Look forward, not back,
Stop apologising, give back,
Mistakes do not define one
Efforts to improve make life fun.
#Guilt #Counselling #LearningFromMistakes #Forgiveness #SelfLove #BeingHuman
- Written on 16 June 2019 and Created on 6 April 2019.
- Posted on Instagram and Facebook.
2 comments:
Sometimes it feels there is nothing such as forgiving, oneself or others; it's either forgotten or unforgettable
Nice poems and paintings. Happy to experience
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